Friday, December 4, 2020

All We Do is Boast in Our Posts

 

                  (McCoy, Aisling. The BigFoot Digital app and discussing the online presence.)

            When it comes to my online footprint, it is larger than I would like it to be. Yet, without an online footprint, in today’s world, one almost seems nonexistent. The more apps that are created, the more accounts one must make and individualize. For instance, in my generation it is considered “weird” if one is not found on Instagram, Snapchat, or Twitter. I’m guilty of having an account on each of these apps, but I do not necessarily enjoy them. Snapchat has lost a bit of its momentum over the years, but no one seems to have deleted it off of their home page, including me. Thanks to FOMO, the “Fear Of Missing Out,” those in today’s generation are terrified to be ostracized. In fact, Justin White, addresses in his article “Research finds links between social media and the ‘fear of missing out’,” that “Psychologists say fears about missing out may be a type of cognitive distortion, causing irrational thoughts – such as believing that friends hate you if you didn’t get an invite to last week’s party – associated with depression.” As much as I like to believe that social media does not hinder my mental health at times, it does.

                                         (Krales, Amelia Holowaty. Screen Time. 17 Sept. 2018.)

            At the beginning of quarantine, due to the Coronavirus, I had way too much time on my hands. During most of this time I found myself on social media, which then lowered my levels of happiness. It felt like I was the only one in quarantine, and everyone else’s lives were completely normal. I have never considered myself a jealous person, but at that time I was. Recognizing this change in myself, I turned off my notifications for Instagram and Snapchat. I didn’t need to be in constant contact with my friends, nor did I need to know what everyone was doing at each moment of the day. All I have to do now is take a look at my screen time per day to know that I was, and still am, wasting four hours and twenty minutes of my day caring about what others think of me. Sarah Motter points out in her article, “Teens may be increasing social media use during COVID-19,” that “A report done by a Chicago children’s hospital is showing that 63% of parents have seen their teen’s social media use increase during the COVID-19 pandemic.” Now I may not be a teen, but my actions mirror those who are. Without the ability to physically see others, social media was my immediate back up plan.

   (Becker, Brent. Job Profile. 26 Jan. 2018. Pro Resources Staffing Services, www.proresources.com/2018/01/26/social-media-profile-negative-effect-job-search-auburn-in/. Accessed 4 Dec. 2020.)

            Since social media and video chatting is how most humans are adapting to COVID-19 restrictions, our accounts and the information we provide are the only ways others can get to know us. For example, companies, especially in today’s climate, depend on the social media accounts that their employees and potential hires have. Social media accounts are now considered a pre-interview before the actual interview. Since most jobs are hiring through applications online, instead of in person today, each individual must be aware of what they are posting on their social media. Personally, I attempt to keep my profiles clean and positive. I want to make sure the company I am applying to work at knows that I can be trusted to provide a good image. Saige Driver emphasizes the idea in her article “Keep It Clean: Social Media Screenings Gain in Popularity,” that “While they might not be searching for anything negative, more than half of the employers who were surveyed (57%) said they found something during their social screenings that led them to not hire someone.” All it takes is one mistake with alcohol, drugs, or profanity, for your potential boss to immediately discard your application. Social media is meant to be personal, but some things do not need to end up online, especially for your own sake.

            Overall, I may not be extremely proud of the size of my online footprint, but at times it is necessary to be online. As a family member, friend, and potential employee, I must keep myself available on various applications. Yet, I know when to take a break, which is a healthy thing to do. While it is important to be social, it is also important to remember that one can always log out.


Works Cited

Becker, Brent. Job Profile. 26 Jan. 2018. Pro Resources Staffing Services, www.proresources.com/2018/01/26/social-media-profile-negative-effect-job-search-auburn-in/. Accessed 4 Dec. 2020.

Driver, Saige. "Keep It Clean: Social Media Screenings Gain in Popularity." Business News Daily, 23 Mar. 2020, www.businessnewsdaily.com/2377-social-media-hiring.html. Accessed 4 Dec. 2020.

Krales, Amelia Holowaty. Screen Time. 17 Sept. 2018.

McCoy, Aisling. The BigFoot Digital app and discussing the online presence.

Motter, Sarah. "Teens may be increasing social media use during COVID-19." 13WIBW, 27 Nov. 2020, www.wibw.com/2020/11/28/teens-may-be-increasing-social-media-use-during-covid-19/. Accessed 4 Dec. 2020.

White, Justin. "Research finds link between social media and the 'fear of missing out.'" The Washington Post, 8 July 2013, www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/research-finds-link-between-social-media-and-the-fear-of-missing-out/2013/07/08/b2cc7ddc-e287-11e2-a11e-c2ea876a8f30_story.html. Accessed 4 Dec. 2020.


All We Do is Boast in Our Posts

                        ( McCoy, Aisling.  The BigFoot Digital app and discussing the online presence .)             When it comes to my onl...